QUESTION AND ANSWER PORTION

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Hi boys,girls,badings! lets be organized para to keep our communications flows,pwede kahit ano dito like Gimmiks, gigs, what's hots, unofficial meet-ups, kamustahan and everything under the sun =)
so start ako...

[ish]

oo nga ehh kung pwede lang makalimot ginawa ko na hahahah nice =)

[ish]

hi wala lang wala nako maisip na topic bigay naman kayo! =)

[Peter]

I have a question to all of you guys.
What would be the best action to a person na under sayo who fails to do his duty for several times and add to that, he is a friend?
here's the story:
we are on a business and i'm acting as an area manager and sales manager. meron akong mga agents and one of them is a friend of mine since i was 10 years old as I can recall. Ngayon my problem is he's not doing his job right and as a boss i'm always reminding him about his performance and also asking him to do an adjustment and improve his work pero wala pa din. I gave him a chance like more than 5 na ata kaya ngayon eto hirap ako to make a decision. If ibang boss lang yun malamang na demote na sya or maybe matanggal pa sya.
Help me guys with this, I know he's a friend but it's business.
"If you're in my place, what would you do?"

[ish]

my point ka dya hehee =)

Peter said:

I'll go with B.

If it is right then in His time everything will be fine magiging happy ka din. Being sad for me is a decision or it is just a point of view. Kung gusto mong maging sad sa buong buhay mo ikaw ang may control dun. Kung tama naman kasi ang isang bagay hindi ka malulungkot di ba? Being happy naman pero mali ang ginagawa is just temporary. happy ka nga pero hanggang kelan?tsaka for sure hindi ka masyadong comfortable kasi may iniisip ka, iniisip mo na nasa maling lugar ka, iniisip mo kung tama ba talaga ginagawa mo, etc...

When making a stand you have to think kung saan ka maraming magagain lalo na sa personality mo. Ask yourself what do I really need? What do I really want? Am I gonna be a good person when I do this? Consider many things but what important is you must know yourself kung ano ba talaga ang dapat para sayo kung anong makakabuti for you, yung hindi panandalian lang.

Don't worry kung maging sad ka man it's part of our life and it's totally normal. Take your sadness as a lesson para the next time na ma-experience mo sya again atleast you know how to get out of it easily.

hope you got my point. haha

[Boy sindikato]

It's true that most of us willfully consent to what we see as right in our eyes. Like careless drivers , we follow the dictates of our hearts and stubbornly become slaves to our own feelings and desires. We fail to think rationally and blindly ignore the " red stop light" that warns us of peril ahead . We may have been victims of ignorance but when the truth is finally revealed to us , we still choose to remain nonchalant and care less about the consequences of our actions.
There are those who were misled into believing that a relationship was right and there are those who knew that is was a sin right from the beginning. But many of us , even after knowing we're going the wrong way still choose to take the chance and persistently stay on that road , even if we know of the danger that lurks in it's path .

God always puts a red stop light along our journey to remind us that we are going to hurt ourselves if we stubbornly step on the gas and move on. But he doesn't put a physical barrier to keep us in place . In the end , it is still our choice, based on our own free will to stop what is wrong and move on with what is right.

Life is a matter of choice. We are who we choose to become and we become what we want ourselves to be. Where we are now speaks of the road we chose to travel. Who we are now reflects the decisions we made earlier in our lives.

Naks!! thanks to mr joe d mango..... hehehehe

[John Anthony C. Ramos]

eh sabi nila business is business..walang personalan..and kawawa naman ung mga taong talagang nag wowork hard para lang makasurvive sila sa kinalalagyan nla..eto na lang isipin mo kuya pano pag ung iba na under mo eh ganyan din gngwa pagbibigyan mo dn ba sila like ng pagbibigay mo sa friend mo edi malulugi ka nun diba..sabi nga ng marketing teacher ko "ang business ay parang tower pag may lamat ang isang part ng tower may posibelidad na gumuho ito" ayun opinion ko lang yan sir!=D

Peter said:

I have a question to all of you guys.
What would be the best action to a person na under sayo who fails to do his duty for several times and add to that, he is a friend?
here's the story:
we are on a business and i'm acting as an area manager and sales manager. meron akong mga agents and one of them is a friend of mine since i was 10 years old as I can recall. Ngayon my problem is he's not doing his job right and as a boss i'm always reminding him about his performance and also asking him to do an adjustment and improve his work pero wala pa din. I gave him a chance like more than 5 na ata kaya ngayon eto hirap ako to make a decision. If ibang boss lang yun malamang na demote na sya or maybe matanggal pa sya.
Help me guys with this, I know he's a friend but it's business.
"If you're in my place, what would you do?"

[PatTr!ckK...]

Peter said:

I have a question to all of you guys.
What would be the best action to a person na under sayo who fails to do his duty for several times and add to that, he is a friend?
here's the story:
we are on a business and i'm acting as an area manager and sales manager. meron akong mga agents and one of them is a friend of mine since i was 10 years old as I can recall. Ngayon my problem is he's not doing his job right and as a boss i'm always reminding him about his performance and also asking him to do an adjustment and improve his work pero wala pa din. I gave him a chance like more than 5 na ata kaya ngayon eto hirap ako to make a decision. If ibang boss lang yun malamang na demote na sya or maybe matanggal pa sya.
Help me guys with this, I know he's a friend but it's business.
"If you're in my place, what would you do?"

cguro ...sbhn mu sa kanya yung totoo mung nararamdaman sbhn mu sa knya yung poblema mu sa kanya ...kc nga friend mu sya sabe mu nga ...cgurado naman na maiintindhan ka nia e...nd naman pede lage ekaw ung umiintindi at nagpaparaya dba???kailngan dn sa pagkakaibgan give and take...wag ka na maglihim sa knya,...kxe qng lalo mu lng yan patatagalin ...lalo ka lng mamomoblema dba??...at sbhn mu dn sa kanya na pag ganun pdn ginawa nia...e baka may mangyare na nd nia gus2 at nd mu dn gus2...heheheh..sana kht papanu nakatulong aq....suport lng yang bngay q sau...ung desisyon e nasayo pdn..heheh

[anbu124]

ahmmm masarap sana ung A ..parang against all odds ..pero panu kung sa 2 magkasintahan ..dumating sila oras na kailangan nila mamili KUNG A or B..mejo madali kung parehas kau ng sagot.. mas magaan dalhin..

pero panu kung mag kaiba kau?
sa u A sa kanya B?
PATAY!!!!

gusto mo lumaban kahit mali para lang maging masaya kayo..
pero sya gusto lang i tama kahit sad..isusuko ka nlng nia.
masakit sa ulo diba?
nakakabaliw!!!
kahit anung laban ang gawin mo wala paring kwenta dahil ikaw lang may gusto..

anu ba dapat gawin?

kung masasagot mo ish maraming salamat..kailangan ko ring malaman.. ganda ng tanung mo ehh naalala ko ung dati..

[ish]

anbu124 said:

ahmmm masarap sana ung A ..parang against all odds ..pero panu kung sa 2 magkasintahan ..dumating sila oras na kailangan nila mamili KUNG A or B..mejo madali kung parehas kau ng sagot.. mas magaan dalhin..

pero panu kung mag kaiba kau?
sa u A sa kanya B?
PATAY!!!!

gusto mo lumaban kahit mali para lang maging masaya kayo..
pero sya gusto lang i tama kahit sad..isusuko ka nlng nia.
masakit sa ulo diba?
nakakabaliw!!!
kahit anung laban ang gawin mo wala paring kwenta dahil ikaw lang may gusto..

anu ba dapat gawin?

kung masasagot mo ish maraming salamat..kailangan ko ring malaman.. ganda ng tanung mo ehh naalala ko ung dati..

haayy kanya kanya naman tayo ng sagot eh huhu di ko alam kung wala ka na talaga magagawa mag hiwalay nalang kayo kasi yun siguro yung solution sana di sya naging manhid kasi kaya mo sya hihiwalayan dahil mahal mo sya hehehe para sakin lang =)

[ish]

mahirap nga yan, yung friend ko nga na mag tatayo ng coffe shop gusto ko nga mag work sa kanya ayaw nya ko tangapin eh kasi mahirap na daw baka mapagalitan nya ako blah blah sabi ko naman di yan i'll do my job pag work work walang kaibigan sa business =) mag paka totoo ka nalang peter! kung friend mo talaga sya at concern ka sa performance nya kaylangan my gawin kang actions good man or bad atlist maging aware sya at mahiyahiya naman. at para matuto yun yun ehh =)

Peter said:

I have a question to all of you guys.
What would be the best action to a person na under sayo who fails to do his duty for several times and add to that, he is a friend?
here's the story:
we are on a business and i'm acting as an area manager and sales manager. meron akong mga agents and one of them is a friend of mine since i was 10 years old as I can recall. Ngayon my problem is he's not doing his job right and as a boss i'm always reminding him about his performance and also asking him to do an adjustment and improve his work pero wala pa din. I gave him a chance like more than 5 na ata kaya ngayon eto hirap ako to make a decision. If ibang boss lang yun malamang na demote na sya or maybe matanggal pa sya.
Help me guys with this, I know he's a friend but it's business.
"If you're in my place, what would you do?"

[anbu124]

ish said:

anbu124 said:

ahmmm masarap sana ung A ..parang against all odds ..pero panu kung sa 2 magkasintahan ..dumating sila oras na kailangan nila mamili KUNG A or B..mejo madali kung parehas kau ng sagot.. mas magaan dalhin..

pero panu kung mag kaiba kau?
sa u A sa kanya B?
PATAY!!!!

gusto mo lumaban kahit mali para lang maging masaya kayo..
pero sya gusto lang i tama kahit sad..isusuko ka nlng nia.
masakit sa ulo diba?
nakakabaliw!!!
kahit anung laban ang gawin mo wala paring kwenta dahil ikaw lang may gusto..

anu ba dapat gawin?

kung masasagot mo ish maraming salamat..kailangan ko ring malaman.. ganda ng tanung mo ehh naalala ko ung dati..

haayy kanya kanya naman tayo ng sagot eh huhu di ko alam kung wala ka na talaga magagawa mag hiwalay nalang kayo kasi yun siguro yung solution sana di sya naging manhid kasi kaya mo sya hihiwalayan dahil mahal mo sya hehehe para sakin lang =)

hihi un nga ginawa ko.. haha salamat narin ahh..kahit papano mejo tama pla ginawa ko..
idol...til next tym!!! rock on

[Peter]

sinuspend ko muna sya sana naman may mangyari na talaga. ang hirap pero tama nga kayo na there should be an action.

ish said:

mahirap nga yan, yung friend ko nga na mag tatayo ng coffe shop gusto ko nga mag work sa kanya ayaw nya ko tangapin eh kasi mahirap na daw baka mapagalitan nya ako blah blah sabi ko naman di yan i'll do my job pag work work walang kaibigan sa business =) mag paka totoo ka nalang peter! kung friend mo talaga sya at concern ka sa performance nya kaylangan my gawin kang actions good man or bad atlist maging aware sya at mahiyahiya naman. at para matuto yun yun ehh =)

Peter said:

I have a question to all of you guys.
What would be the best action to a person na under sayo who fails to do his duty for several times and add to that, he is a friend?
here's the story:
we are on a business and i'm acting as an area manager and sales manager. meron akong mga agents and one of them is a friend of mine since i was 10 years old as I can recall. Ngayon my problem is he's not doing his job right and as a boss i'm always reminding him about his performance and also asking him to do an adjustment and improve his work pero wala pa din. I gave him a chance like more than 5 na ata kaya ngayon eto hirap ako to make a decision. If ibang boss lang yun malamang na demote na sya or maybe matanggal pa sya.
Help me guys with this, I know he's a friend but it's business.
"If you're in my place, what would you do?"